This is the online publication for all those interested in the way children grow up and how they
are nurtured. It welcomes contributions from parents, foster parents, residential child care workers in
children’s homes, day care workers, social workers, teachers, youth workers, youth mentors, child
therapists, social pedadogues, and educateurs, and all people who reflect on their own upbringing.
The goodenoughcaring Journal which is electronically archived at the British Library is not an
academic publication though academic submissions are welcomed and considered for publication alongside all
other submissions.
The members of the editorial group are Cynthia Cross, Evelyn Daniel, Siobain
Degregorio, Jeremy Millar, Jane Kenny, Ariola Vishnja, Mark Smith, John Stein and Charles Sharpe.
To
submit an article for publication or to discuss an idea for an article contact the editorial group at goodenoughcaring@dsl.pipex.com
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Saturday, June 15th, 2013 The new issue of the goodenoughcaring Journal is now online.
As luck would have it Issue 13 of the goodenoughcaring Journal is now online, 2013. We are
fortunate in the exceptional array of articles presented here for you to read. We hope they will be of
interest to you. In this issue : Julieann Arthur, Alex Horne, Alastair Jamieson,
Murray Mckinnon and Jeremy Millar have given us an early glimpse of their textual and
photographic research piece Candles and Care which takes a snapshot of resources available to care
leavers in Denmark ; John Burton in a memoir of his relationship with a young woman from her
adolescence to her adulthood reminds us that social care is Not Just a Job ; Darren Coyne
portrays in Care Leavers and the Criminal Justice System : a sorry state of affairs... the hostile
territory encountered by the inordinate number of care leavers who enter our justice system ; Jane
Dalgleish writes about work in progress towards Providing a nurturing environment for young people in
a residential setting ; Moira Devlin recollects her time teaching girls and young women in a
Community Home with Education in Beyond the mainstream, what difference have we made? ; Roger
Lewis guides us through the vicissitudes of the extraordinary and the ordinary life of a London boy in
The influence of Chance and Luck in Childhood ; George Orwell, in his essay Such, Such Were
The Joys contemplates his fortune or lack of it in a childhood spent in a different kind of residential
care and education ; Joan Pritchard re-examines the strategies she and her colleagues developed and
used to help the children in their care - assessed as having social, emotional behavioural difficulties -
to achieve their full potential in Helping children experiencing SEBD to understand and manage their
own feelings : the experiences of a headteacher of a day school for such children; Charles Sharpe
reviews Residential child care in practice Making a difference by Mark Smith, Leon Fulcher and Peter
Doran ;John Stein gives a personal analysis of how the experience of childhood nowadays is so
different from when he was a boy in Then and Now and Werner van der Westhuizen considers the
significance of Context in the provision of therapeutic care.
CONTENTS
| EDITORIAL 13 : I'm not like everybody else | The Editors | 15 June
2013 | |
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| Candles and Care : some photographic reflections on a study visit to Denmark by Scottish care
leavers | Julieann Arthur, Alex Horne, Alastair
Jamieson, Murray Mckinnon & Jeremy Millar | 15
June 2013 | |
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| Not Just a
Job | John Burton | 15 June 2013 | |
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| Care
Leavers and the Criminal Justice System : a sorry state of affairs… | Darren Coyne | 15 June
2013 | |
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| Then and Now | John Stein | 15 June 2013 | |
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| The
Influence of Chance and Luck in childhood | Roger
Lewis | 15 June 2013 | |
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| Such, Such Were The Joys
| George Orwell | 15 June 2013 | |
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| Providing a nurturing environment for young people in a residential
child setting. | Jane Dalgleish | 15 June 2013 | |
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| Helping children experiencing SEBD to understand and
manage their own feelings and behaviour : the experiences of the headteacher of a day school for such
children | Joan Pritchard | 15 June 2013 | |
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| Context in Therapeutic Work with Young People | Werner van der Westhuizen | 15
June 2013 | |
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| Beyond the mainstream, what difference have we made? | Moira Devlin | 15 June
2013 | |
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| Residential child care in practice Making a difference : a review | Charles Sharpe | 15 June 2013 | |
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| EDITORIAL 12 : No policy, no procedure ever loved a child
| The Editors | 15 December 2012 |
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| Confessions
of a Keyworker- Feelings, Fears, Frustration and the Future | Tracey Jarvis | 15 December
2012 | |
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| Access all
areas - a developmental perspective | Janet
Rich | 15 December 2012 | |
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| Moral Panics | Mark Smith | 15 December 2012 | |
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| Can we
ever get the balance right? | Cynthia
Cross | 15 December 2012 | |
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| The Casual Cruelty of
Positive Intent | Michael Mallows | 15 December 2012 | |
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| The Experiences of Young People Leaving Residential
Childcare Institutions in Bangladesh | Tuhinul
Islam | 15 December 2012 |
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| Jim : the Importance of
Peers | John Stein | 15 December 2012 |
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| The
difficulties of meeting the ethnic and cultural needs of children and young people whose background you do
not share. | Mary Winters | 15 December 2012 | |
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| The Cotswold Community's Obituary | John Whitwell | 15 December 2012 |
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| The Boy at the Gate : a review of the memoirs of Danny Ellis |
Noel Howard | 15 December 2012 |
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| EDITORIAL 11 : residential child care
| Mark Smith | 15 June 2012 |
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| The Emotional Journey of a Keyworker Keychild Relationship – A
Therapeutic Case Study | Claire
Cooper | 15 June 2012 |
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| Shift Recording in Residential Child Care | Mark Hardy | 15 June 2012 |
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| Some
tentative thoughts on the concept of planned environment therapy | John Cross | 15 June
2012 |
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| In defiance of compliance | John Burton | 15 June
2012 |
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| Residential child care:a view from inside the service | Evelyn Daniel | 15 June 2012 |
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| A Case Study of the ‘high impact’ child at the Mulberry Bush School
| Kevin Ellis | 15 June 2012 |
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| Managing the milieu
: the power of residential treatment | John Stein | 15 June
2012 |
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| The reasons for placing children in residential child care
in Tajikistan | Shamsiya Ashurmamadova |
15 June 2012 |
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Budgeting and finance in children’s homes | John Burton | 15 June 2012 |
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| Residential Life with Children Revisited : conclusion | Jeremy Millar | 15 June 2012 |
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| EDITORIAL 10 : Leaving father out in the cold | THE EDITORS | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| Dad's the Word | Mark Smith | 15 Dec
2011 |
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| Child Observation : the relationship a four and half years old boy
has with his male carer in a nursery school setting | Moira Strachan | 15 Dec
2011 |
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| My Father, My Fiction | Joyce Carol Oates | 15 Dec
2011 |
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| How nurture groups help children in schools | Marion Bennathan | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| My Father | Jan Noble | 15 Dec
2011 |
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| A Child Observation Assignment | Marie Tree | 15 Dec
2011 |
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| From My Dad | John Stein | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| Residential Child Care in the 1960s and now : some
comparisons | Cynthia Cross | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| Being a Christian Father | Alex Russon | 15 Dec
2011 |
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| The
Kerelaw Papers (The Final Act) | Bob
Forrest | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| Let's Sing | Pat Petrie | 15 Dec
2011 |
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| 800 Voices - the heartache and the healing | Noel Howard | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| Residential Life with Children Revisited : Essay Review Part
1 | Jeremy Millar | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| Looking back at Richard Webster's book “The Secret of Bryn Estyn –
the making of a Modern Witch Hunt” | John
Molloy | 15 Dec 2011 |
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| EDITORIAL 9 : It's
not the despair, it's the hope | THE
EDITORS | 14 Jun 2011 |
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| Growing up :
adolescence a unique experience for parent and child | Lorea Boneke | 12 Jun
2011 |
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| Reflections on my
learning and development over the duration of a social work post qualifying programme | Marie Tree | 12 Jun 2011 |
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| Liberal,
utilitarian or progressive: ideas on what makes up a good education | Jennie Thomas | 14 Jun
2011 |
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| The impact of
repeated family and care placement breakdowns on the development of a child: a psychodynamic perspective
| Kate Lawrence | 12 Jun 2011 |
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| The Kerelaw
Papers | Bob Forrest | 11 Jun 2011 |
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| Developing
Reflective Training in the Child Care Sector : A Case Study | Dave Roberts | 04 Jun
2011 |
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| Things I learned
from me Mum | John Stein | 04 Jun 2011 |
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| Some notes about
theory and practice in work with children in residential child care | Hans Kornerup | 04 Jun
2011 |
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| Facebook Friend or
Facebook foe ? | Simon P.Hammond | 04 Jun 2011 |
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| Providing a
facilitating environment for creative play and autonomy in young children and parents attachment-based :
insights from the playgroup movement | Linnet
McMahon | 02 Jun 2011 |
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| The Relevance of
Social Pedagogy in Working with Young People in Residential Child Care | Gabriel Eichsteller and Viki Bird | 04 Jun 2011 |
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| EDITORIAL 8
Getting real : part people with part lives or whole people with whole lives ? | THE EDITORS | 14 Dec 2010 |
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| Running Thoughts : film making
with the Vault Project | Alexander Nicolaou | 14 Dec 2010 |
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| Council of Europe 'one in five'
campaign to prevent child sexual violence in Europe | Kevin
Lalor and Rosaleen McElvaney | 14 Dec 2010 |
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| On being a social
worker | Hilary Mantel | 11 Dec 2010 | |
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| An interview with John
Cross | John Cross | 14 Dec 2010 | |
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| Generosity, Learning and
Residential Child Care | Max Smart | 11 Dec 2010 | |
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| Residential Care Do We Still
Need It? | John Stein | 14 Dec 2010 | |
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| Being a Residential Child Care
Worker in England | Harald Stoelting | 13 Dec 2010 | |
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| The damaging effects of poor
communication in child care. | Sheila Wilson | 14 Dec 2010 | |
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| Transference and
Counter-transference : their therapeutic value in residential work with young people. | Ariola Vishnja Zjarri | 13 Dec 2010 | |
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| Children who need a therapeutic
residential experience | Cynthia Cross | 11 Dec 2010 | |
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| Book Review : "Founded on Fear"
by Peter Tyrell | Noel Howard | 11 Dec 2010 | |
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| Two book Reviews : Kathy's Real
Story by Hermann Kelly and The Secret of Bryn Estyn by Richard Webster | Mark Smith | 11 Dec 2010 | |
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| EDITORIAL 7 : How can a poor
man stand such times and live ? | THE EDITORS | 14 Jun 2010 | |
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| An interview with Leon Fulcher
and Thom Garfat | Leon Fulcher and Thom Garfat | 14 Jun 2010 | |
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| Jesus of Suburbia | Tiff Dawkins | 14 Jun
2010 | |
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| The History of Concepts
concerning Child Care | David Lane | 14 Jun 2010 | |
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| Who am I? An account of my
childhood and teenage years in the 1930s and 1940s and my discovery at the age of 63 that I was an adopted
child | Ted Woolvett | 14 Jun 2010 | |
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| Greendale : the running and
working of children's homes | John Burton | 13 Jun 2010 | |
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| Saying I Love You in Child and
Youth Care | Jillian Viens | 09 Jun 2010 | |
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| Consequences | John Stein | 08 Jun
2010 | |
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| The Little Girl Who Was Lost
Inside Her Armour | Kay Cook | 14 Jun 2010 | |
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| A personal reflection on the
state of social care for children and young people in Ireland | John Molloy | 08 Jun 2010 | |
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| Being a keyworker in
residential child care | Jane Kenny | 13 Jun 2010 | |
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| Sitting with Jason | Thom Garfat | 09 Jun
2010 | |
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| EDITORIAL 6 : There's a lot to
learn for wastin' time | THE EDITORS | 13 Dec 2009 | |
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| A Sense of Being Home |
Bob Mann | 13 Dec
2009 | |
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| An interview with Jonathan
Stanley, the Manager of the National Centre for Excellence in Residential Child Care | Jonathan Stanley | 13
Dec 2009 | |
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| It's the New Thing !! |
Jeremy Millar | 14
Dec 2009 | |
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| The Art of Effective
Communication: A Pilot Course in Video Enhanced Reflective Practice for Staff in a Residential Setting for
Young People. | Calum Strathie | 12 Dec 2009 | |
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| Transference, Projection,
Attachment and Loss : Emotional Containment in Residential Child Care | Dominic McNally | 13 Dec 2009 | |
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| Therapeutic Containment and
Physical Restraint in Residential Child Care | Laura
Steckley | 12 Dec 2009 | |
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| Dilemmas | Cynthia Cross | 12 Dec
2009 | |
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| The Educational Attainment of
Looked After Children in England : Are Personal Educational Plans Improving Their Educational
Prospects | Donna Hugh | 13 Dec 2009 | |
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| And what about the mental
health of children and young people in care in the UK ? | Nancy Mohindra | 13 Dec 2009 | |
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| Developmental Assets for
Kids | Dr. Leon Fulcher | 26 Dec 2009 | |
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| EDITORIAL 5 JUNE 2009 |
THE EDITORS | 15 Jun
2009 | |
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| Becoming a learning mentor : a
personal journey | Claudette Brown | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| Helping a young person living in
residential care to return to mainstream school. | Athlene
Derry | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| Clare and Donald Winnicott:
Play, Holding and the Transitional Participant | Joel
Kanter | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| The resilience of children in
care : the influence of adult attachment figures | Lorea
Boneke | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| Attachment theory and social
work with 'looked after' children and their families | John
Fallowfield | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| Updating Life Story Work for
use with a technologically proficient generation: a review | Simon Hammond | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| The Growth of Love : Five
Essential Elements of Child Development | Dr. Keith J.
White | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| What's In a Name ? | John Stein | 15 Jun
2009 | |
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| My experience of moving from
outreach work with young adults to residential care work with children and young people | Douglas Cameron | 15 Jun
2009 | |
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| Film : Attachment to a Camera :
a review of Helena Trestikova's film, 'Rene' | Alison
Poltock | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| Rethinking Residential Child
Care : Positive perspectives by Mark Smith : Book Review | Charles Sharpe | 15 Jun 2009 | |
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| EDITORIAL 4 DECEMBER,
2008 | THE EDITORS | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| Resolutions | Cynthia Cross | 14 Dec
2008 | |
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| Parents who misuse drugs or drug
users who have children? | Calum Strathie | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| Summerhill School | Zoe Readhead | 14 Dec
2008 | |
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| Care is therapy | John Burton | 14 Dec
2008 | |
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| A Penny for Your Thoughts Jen:
Surviving and Thriving in Residential Care Homes | Simon P.
Hammond | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| On becoming and being a foster
carer | Shanna Marrinan | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| Keynote conference presentation
: Loving or Fearful Relationships | Mark Smith | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| Conference presentation: Lost
in Translation- Who should look after children in the care system? | Jeremy Millar | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| Conference presentation :
Troubled young people : how can we love them ? | Siobain
Degregorio | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| Conference presentation : What
is this thing called love ? caring for other people's children. | Charles Sharpe | 14 Dec 2008 | |
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| Conference presentation : The
place of love in recent developments in the care and education of troubled children : a view from a
practitioner | Evelyn Daniel | 16 Jan 2009 | |
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| Themes from the group
discussions at the goodenoughcaring conference - Love Is Enough : sincerity and professionalism in the care
of children and young people | Jane Kenny and Ariola
Vishnja | 18 Jan 2009 | |
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| EDITORIAL 3 JUNE, 2008 |
THE EDITORS | 25 Jun
2008 | |
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| Loving or fearful
relationships | Mark Smith | 01 Jun 2008 | |
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| Normalisation or Systemalisation
? How children looked after in children's homes are depersonalised by the processes and procedures of a
public child care system. | Jane Kenny | 21 Jun 2008 | |
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| Lost in Translation |
Jeremy Millar | 01
Jun 2008 | |
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| Steven K | Jan Noble | 23 Jun
2008 | |
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| Disrupted relationships : a
personal view of the causes of placement breakdown for children and young people in care. | Douglas Cameron | 22 Jun
2008 | |
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| By Nurture Not
Enforcement | Martin Wigg | 01 Jun 2008 | |
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| Cultivating the Good Heart :
integrating an ethic of mutual care into the development of an Indian school community. | Jo Nash | 01 Jun
2008 | |
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| One night out in Dublin |
Jan Noble | 25 Jun
2008 | |
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| 1966 and All That | Bob Billingham | 24 Jun
2008 | |
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| Memoirs of a Training School
Lad | David Murphy | 22 Jun 2008 | |
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| Difference and Diversity :
Meeting Dietary Needs in Children's Homes | Patson
Musumali | 25 Jun 2008 | |
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| The man who turned into his
father | Jan Noble | 23 Jun 2008 | |
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| EDITORIAL 2 DECEMBER,
2007 | The EDITORS | 19 Dec 2007 | |
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| Crazy Mixed Up Kid : the
Daughter's Story | Chloe Smith | 19 Dec 2007 | |
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| Working to make sure
professional procedures do not lead to the institutionalisation of children living in children's
homes | Jane Kenny | 14 Dec 2007 | |
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| Pie, Mash and Liquor |
Jan Noble | 15 Dec
2007 | |
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| Toward Posterity | Jan Noble | 15 Dec
2007 | |
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| How the Impact of Multiple
Changes and Breakdowns in the Lives of Children and Young People in Care Affects Them and Their
Relationships with Professional Carers | Nancy
Mohindra | 19 Dec 2007 | |
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| Quantitive Research and
Residential Child Care : an Unfruitful Marriage | Ariola
Vishnja | 13 Dec 2007 | |
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| The Right to be Normal : how my
childhood experience has influenced my thinking about my work as a teaching assistant | Amanda Towers | 13 Dec
2007 | |
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| EDITORIAL 1 MAY/JUNE,
2007 | The EDITORS | 25 May 2007 | |
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| Working with Young People Who
Have Been Sexually Abused in Childhood : a Case Study | Lorea
Boneke | 25 May 2007 | |
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| The importance of play in the
care of children and young people : reflections on a short case study. | Dominic McNally | 22 May 2007 | |
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| Tackling anti-social behaviour -
'toughness' versus effectiveness | Dorothy
Thornhill | 22 May 2007 | |
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| The impact of culture and
difference on my practice as an outreach worker supporting young adults who are preparing to leave the care
system. | John Fallowfield | 22 May 2007 | |
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| Good Enough Caring : using a
psychodynamic approach to the care of children and young people in the care system. | Charles Sharpe, Evelyn Daniel & Siobain Degregorio | 22 May 2007 | |
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| Being a parent
: some thoughts on learning from your children. | Jennie Thomas | 22 May 2007 | |
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| The concept of the therapeutic
holding environment and how it has been implemented in the residential home for young people in which I
work. | Ariola Vishnja | 22 May 2007 | |
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